Each year St. Joseph's holds their graduation ceremony for those who are transitioning into mainstream schools. This year the class was a bit younger than usual - two five year olds and a six year old. All three of these children have been with the institute since birth and are now ready to begin a new journey. One of those children was Abby Grace, my granddaughter.
Five years ago we welcomed a beautiful 7 pound 12 ounce baby girl into the world. Before she left the hospital, she failed her hearing test 3 times. Within two weeks, her severe hearing loss was confirmed, and our family entered a new world. We certainly did not choose to enter the world of the deaf; it was not the turn in the road that one delights over. However, it has been an amazing journey that God has guided us through.
Before Abby was three months old, she had her first pair of hearing aids and began speech therapy. Yes, speech therapy long befoe she was ready to talk. Abby had to learn to hear and listen. The rest of us had to learn how to help her. Her parents, Seth and Hannah, were naturally broken-hearted for their baby girl, but they never broke stride. They put their hiking shoes on and have been climbing mountains since the day of the diagnosis. You see, St. Joseph's does not teach sign language; they teach lanuage! Their students learn to listen and to speak.
In Abby's two year old class, there was a quote on the wall, "Talk is cheap unless you are deaf. Then it is priceless". It brought tears to my eyes then and still does today. The kiddos there work so hard to do what we take for granted. Each time I have attended one of their plays/musicals I have left humbled and in awe. They recite their lines, sings their songs, and dance their steps with the biggest smiles on their faces! They know they have truly accomplished something huge.
For the first two year of Abby's life, she attended speech therapy weekly. The next three years she attended preschool where she had daily speech therapy and wonderful teachers who constantly (and I do mean constantly) worked on her speech and vocabulary development. At age two, Abby received her first cochlear implant. At age four, she received her second one. Since Abby began at St. Joseph's, the goal has been for her to attend a mainstream kindergarten. Yesterday that goal became a reality as she graduated from St. Joseph's. It was a bittersweet day saying goodbye to a place that has changed her life and celebrating an absolutely amazing accomplishment.
The staff beamed as they bestowed the certificates of graduation to the three young graduates. The rest of the students cheered them on in their journey. The families shed tears of joy. For these kiddos to reach this goal took not only their blood, sweat and tears, but also that of their parents and the wonderful staff at St. Joseph's.
Thank you, God, for giving Abby a tenacious spirit, for holding her hand up and down mountains, for her faithful parents, for St. Joseph's and their amazing staff, for allowing me to be a part of this journey.
Right now Abby knows she cannot hear, but she doesn't know that is unusual. It has never occurred to her that there is anything she can't do. I know that someday she will experience the heartache that goes with having a "handicap", but I pray she be content and confident with how God has made her. I pray that the love and encouragement of her family and friends will overshadow the hurt. "Oh, the places you will go" young lady.
Abby telling the audience where she headed after she leaves St. Joeseph's and telling her parents "thank you" for all of their help.

Presenting her parents with a rose.


Mrs. Amy, Abby's teacher, reading the graduates "Oh, the Places You Will Go". Each grad received a copy of the book filled with encouraging words from the staff.

Abby and Kaitlyn have been together since they were two.

Amy and Maureen, Abby's fabulous teachers.

Mammie and Papa with their girl.

Abby's other grandmother.


May the rest of your journey be as successful as this leg was!